Adults can’t expect to walk into my life and tell me what to do.

Maybe if I was younger, your “instructing” and the things you want me to do might impact me, or maybe I would consider them. But your window of opportunity has passed. I raised myself. I grew up without adult input into my life, and I grew up without much guidance. 

Which means I taught myself and formed my own opinions and did things my own way. You can’t expect that after leaving me alone for all these years, you can just come into my life for a week and tell me to “do this” and “do that.”

No, it doesn’t work that way. I do what I want, when I want to. ESPECIALLY if you haven’t played a big part in my life. 

When I marry, divorce is not an option.

salvationishere11:

“Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.” - Matthew 19:6 [NLT]

My little sister is really rude and lacks manners.

She doesn’t know that there’s a time and place for EVERYTHING. If she wants to complain to me about something, then she can wait until AFTER I’m done doing work/writing a collaborative commentary/essay with my classmates on a video chat. 

She doesn’t know that there are these things called manners and her attitude is quite horrible. She thinks I have an attitude and no manners? Even a few family members have admitted that she’s become very rude lately. 

Interrupting people when they talk is incredibly rude, not to mention it makes you look like you were never taught manners in the first place. I’m really embarrassed that my classmates had to hear her talk. In Vietnamese, it’s called “mất dạy.”

She ALSO has to get over herself because you do NOT talk like that to an older sibling. She thinks that she’s not like me at all, but she’s actually got A LOT of my bad qualities. She also has to realize that her incompetence is getting on a lot of people’s nerves. Even my grandpa has talked to me about it when we were going to the doctor’s to get his flu shot.

I don’t know what is wrong with her, but she needs to get her act together, because she’s not always right, and her rudeness and bad attitude only serves to make her look like the immature teenager she really is. 

Being 13 doesn’t mean you’re on top of the world. You feel like you’re always right, and being a teenager, it’s in your nature to be rude. But you have to know there’s a limit to everything. My sister is getting out of hand and I think it’s time to get her priorities straight. Getting all defensive and then threatening to invade my privacy and personal space only proves how immature, selfish, incompetent, and rude you really are. 

You may be pretty on the outside , I admit, but your personality has gotten really ugly lately. 

Um, yes, I definitely do love having curves more than being a supermodel.

Food ftw. 

talk about hourglass figure! DAMNN GIRL!

I feel the same way. Like, I always try to make them feel welcome, especially when they’re new to the circle. But when it comes to them, it’s like I’m not even there.

And you know what irks me? I could definitely be hanging out with other people, but I would feel rude if I just left. 

But what they don’t seem to understand is that THEY’RE making me feel left out by having conversations I cannot relate to. 

Awesome friends, right? 

I. HATE. THAT.

SERIOUSLY! Like, if I make an effort to help my friends and include them, they should do the same. 

(Oh, and I know this is stupid, but they comment and like eachother’s pictures and stuff on facebook, and I’m just over here like. Okay, bye. Idk, it’s not that big of a deal, but I’m just being spiteful right now…)

I don’t even like the people I see a lot.

Like, honestly, they don’t even include me in their conversations. You know, way to make me feel left out. (Oh, and it’s okay, you can hang out and do things without me, too. It’s all good.)

It’s okay, I have my boyfriend. I have my Madi and Conner.

I have a good life.

Breathe.